Jayden Graduated!

Last month Jayden completed a pretty big milestone in his life. Our handsome young man graduated from high school! We could not be more proud of him and what he has accomplished. This fall he will be attending tech school as part of their network administrator program. GSCf5bT5QSq6tYHAc8D5%g+AU5fcDVTTeIybKjP9XrzwSjP8VF0bSSecLDEQ18DM4wfullsizeoutput_21afullsizeoutput_241AA0hs61WTRWW7ZMxMO5rjwGcy8E4DLRJuE2kPf8sWOjw

We threw a graduation party in his honor at our home, and me being the proud parent that I am, I went overboard as is my usual. 🙂 We had remodeled our garage a couple of years ago and turned it into an entertainment space. The color scheme we chose for the garage just happen to go really well with Jayden’s school colors. It turned out to be perfect!

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Since Jayden is going into a computer related field, not to mention that the kid is amazing at everything that has to do with computers, we decided to use a computer theme. A good friend of mine made Jayden’s micro chip cake and also did three different flavors of cupcakes each with its own computer themed topper such as a mouse, the CTRL ALT DEL keys and the power button. They all looked and tasted amazing! The cake topper is a custom bobble head which I ordered off Etsy and no party is complete without M&M’s customized with Jayden’s face! I had actually found a Groupon for the custom M&M’s and got a pretty good deal on them.fullsizeoutput_217Lt3R2scTQaOIQ1VjHUHcpgDTgM5JzAReSFWpuJTvMV+wUgndOOVaTDWOugn9yaS4TAdPNLX7SfTuyn4elWFi0KNgBo8ff1wRSn+b5DrlZZy1cAkO9nuBu4TSuQEyuDey74TgdTKL0flkR9m53z2I66pghAStmJJ27BTvmUrjalhNR1Twfullsizeoutput_212IMG_2255

In continuation with our computer theme, we decided to use our smart TV to display a slide show of pictures of Jayden throughout his life rather than have physical photos displayed. It didn’t take up any extra space and it was really easy to pull images onto a flash drive and plug it in. After I was done looking through pictures and reminiscing of course!

Since we live in South Dakota and you never know what the weather is going to do, we rented a tent and had it set up over the driveway to provide an area with extra seating and cover in case of rain or snow. The weather however, turned out to be perfect. It was an overcast day and it was neither too cold; nor too hot which we were extremely grateful for since the day before was windy, rainy and cold. We were so thankful for the weather that day and also all of our amazing friends and family that stopped by to wish Jayden well. We love and appreciated all of you!


Oh, Christmas Tree!

This year our Christmas tree was extra special. It was the first year that we cut down our own. What makes it even more special is that we cut it from our own back yard! Wait what? Yes, we got our Christmas tree from our back yard.

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The truth is, the tree was in a terrible location. It wouldn’t have been a problem, but a couple of years ago we put fence around our property, which rubbed right up against our tree. The bigger the tree gets, the more it pushes against the fence. Now, I know what you’re thinking. Why didn’t we just have the tree relocated? Well, for the simple reason that the fiber optic cable and internet lines run very close to where the tree was planted and there was no way to remove it without causing thousands of dollars in damage and repairs.

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So the three of us made the decision to give our tree a grand farewell and show it all the holiday love we could. Jayden helped me cut it down, then we decorated it with ornaments we’ve been collecting since his first Christmas. He went through a Scooby Doo phase, a Star Wars phase and one year even chose the Beatles Yellow Submarine. Needless to say, it turned out pretty amazing and smells pretty good too!

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I’ve always loved Christmas lights! Growing up, I always had my own set of lights to hang up in my room. There’s something very magical about the glow of Christmas lights, especially when it’s the only light in the room! We love our little tree, and will enjoy every moment of this Christmas season. Then once spring comes, we’ll give our tree one final goodbye when we get together with our friends for the first neighborhood bonfire of the year.

For now, I need to find a way to keep the dogs from drinking all the water from the tree stand!

Merry Christmas from our family to yours!

 


Thankful, Grateful, Happy

“I am grateful for what I am and have. My thanksgiving is perpetual.” Henry David Thoreau

The picture above is from my dining room. In the frames, you’ll find all the turkeys my son made in elementary school; each one completely different from the previous years. I keep them behind our framed menus so that every November I can flip them out and display them. My favorite is the “Darth Vader Turkey” that we made together. The assignment was to create a disguise for the turkey so he wouldn’t be eaten for Thanksgiving! It was a lot of fun!

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Jayden holding our Darth Vader disguised turkey!

When Jayden was creating these turkeys, he wasn’t worried about making his turkey perfect. He wasn’t thinking about making his turkey better than his classmates. He was just happy to be making the turkey. I am thankful for many things this year, but mostly I’m thankful for my son and the person he has grown to be.

My son knows what he wants and what he likes. He doesn’t feel the need to do certain things because everyone else is doing them. He is a unique individual and lives his life in that manner; he doesn’t let insignificant things bother him or get him down. As a parent, you teach your children to be good people and to be themselves and when it’s time for them to live on their own; you hope like hell that something stuck with them. I don’t have that worry and I’m very thankful for that.

I feel that Jayden can teach us all valuable lessons about life.

  • Stop chasing perfection. No one is perfect. And no one expects you to be perfect. Stop stressing about little details that only you will notice. It doesn’t matter in the long run.
  • Stop comparing yourself to others. Comparison is a death sentence for your joy and happiness. It doesn’t matter what other people have or what they do. Focus on your goals, on yourself and success will follow.
  • Do what makes you happy. Even if it’s not what everyone else is doing.

I’d like to wish everyone a fantastic Thanksgiving this year. Cherish the time you spend with family and do what makes you happy!